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Lipton, Cloves & Ginger: The Combo Every Woman Should Use

The Lipton, Cloves and Ginger Combo That Transformed My Body and My Health And Why Every Lady Should Have It I don’t play with Lipton, cloves and ginger. I really don’t. This combo has become one of those things I can’t joke with because it has shown me small miracles that money can’t buy. I used to spend so much on teas, detox powders, slimming syrups and all those online “miracle fat burners” that influencers hype. I kept trying one thing after another until the day I decided to stick to something simple. That was the day I combined Lipton, cloves and ginger together. Since then, I’ve not looked back. It still surprises me when I meet ladies who don’t have these three things in their kitchen. I always find myself wondering if they don’t know how powerful this combo is. Maybe nobody ever told them. Maybe they’ve tried so many things that they don’t trust simple remedies again. Or maybe they just don’t know where to start. If you fall into any of these categories, let me be the one to ...

How I Glow Up Naturally Without Surgery — The Honest Routine That Changed My Skin, My Confidence, My Life

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Every day online feels like a soft pressure on your chest. Perfect faces. Hourglass bodies. Glass skin. Tiny waists. Influencers with jawlines carved like marble, and celebrities whose pictures look like they were sculpted by angels. You scroll and scroll, and a small voice whispers inside you “you’re not enough yet.” One tiny flaw becomes the beginning of insecurity. One stretch mark becomes a reminder of imperfection. One acne flare feels like a failure. I know this feeling, because I lived inside it for a long time. I used to think beauty was something people earned only after changing their bodies or bleaching their skin or contouring themselves into someone more acceptable. I even questioned myself sometimes — is natural beauty still relevant in this world of cosmetic enhancements? Is there still space for women who glow softly, not surgically. I found my answer in the mirror. Not after a doctor touched me. Not after someone else validated me. I found beauty on normal days, on qui...

Wike’s Most Embarrassing CDS Call: Yerima Stands Firm

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How FCT Minister Nyesom Wike Was Ultimately Humiliated After Calling the Chief of Defence Staff, Hoping to Order Officer Yerima Out By Aniako Ogochukwu | Bites and Beauty | November 12, 2025 | Naija News, Power Plays, Abuja Drama      The confrontation between Federal Capital Territory (FCT) Minister Nyesom Wike and Lt. Ahmad M. Yerima, a Nigerian Navy officer, on November 11, 2025, has dominated headlines and social media, drawing widespread reactions from politicians, analysts, and the public. What began as a routine enforcement of a stop-work order at Plot 1946 in Gaduwa District, Abuja, escalated into a tense standoff that highlighted tensions between civilian authority and military protocol. The incident, captured in a viral video that garnered over 500,000 views within hours, culminated in Wike's phone call to the Chief of Defence Staff (CDS), Gen. Olufemi Oluyede, which failed to yield the outcome the minister sought. This report details the sequence of events, key...

BBL Gone Wrong: The Shocking End to Tonto Dikeh’s BBL Journey

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By Aniako Ogochukwu | Bites and Beauty | November 2025          I still remember the first time I saw Tonto Dikeh after her first BBL. She walked into an event like confidence had a body literally. Nigeria’s social media went wild. Every blog post, every gossip page, every Instagram reel was filled with “Tonto’s new shape.” Some people praised her courage, some criticized her, but everyone was talking. She had that presence, that energy that made other women secretly check their mirrors. You could almost hear the sighs: “If only I had the money.”      Fast forward a few years later, and Tonto Dikeh is speaking up about the pain, the regret, the endless corrections. From a ₦5 million “confidence cushion” to what she now calls a flat-tire nightmare, her story feels like a slap of reality in an age where curves are currency and surgery is just another beauty routine. But her journey also exposes something deeper the unspoken truth about body image, v...

IV Drips for Fair Skin? Why Lagos Salons Are Poisoning Your Glow And How Colorism Is Stealing Our Confidence

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Written By Aniako Ogochukwu | November 11, 2025 | Bites and Beauty , Controversial Glow-Ups       Hey, beautiful ones. For the longest time, I stared at my reflection in the mirror, pinching my cheeks, willing them to lighten just a shade. Growing up in Enugu, where aunties would coo over "yellow" babies at family gatherings, I internalized it: fair skin was the ticket to compliments, jobs, even love. Fast-forward to my early years in Lagos, hustling as a beauty blogger, and I almost fell for the hype. A sleek VI salon DM'd me: "Glutathione IV drip glow like a Nollywood star in one session!" It promised that effortless fairness, the kind Beyoncé or Genevieve Nnaji rocks without apology. But something stopped me. Whispers from friends who'd tried it rashes that wouldn't fade, hospital bills stacking up like bad karma.       Today, I'm spilling the tea on skin whitening IV drips in Lagos the underground glow-up that's turning our veins into battleg...

Why I Stopped Waiting for People’s Support and Started Supporting Myself

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     For a long time, I believed that the people closest to me would be my biggest cheerleaders. I thought once I started something my blog, my business, my goals that my friends, family, and even acquaintances would show up, share my posts, comment, and celebrate me. I truly believed support would come naturally, because I’ve always been that person who supports others without being asked. But I was wrong. It took me months  let me say even years to understand that not everyone will clap for you when you start doing something different. And that realization hurt. It hurt so deeply that there were nights I almost gave up on everything I was building. But here I am today, stronger and more confident, because I learned the hard way that waiting for people’s support is one of the fastest ways to delay your own success.   The Harsh Truth Nobody Told Me    When I started my blog, I imagined my friends would be my first readers. I thought my posts would fil...

How I Stopped Trying to Be Perfect and Started Loving Myself as a Nigerian Woman

        For the longest time, I thought being a “good Nigerian woman” meant ticking every invisible box people placed in front of me. Be respectful. Be quiet. Be beautiful. Be strong. Be humble. Be hardworking. Be everything all at once. I didn’t realize that in chasing perfection, I was slowly losing myself. I grew up surrounded by women who did it all — cooking, cleaning, raising kids, working, praying, smiling, and never complaining. I admired them, but I also misunderstood them. I thought perfection was the goal. I thought that to be respected, loved, or taken seriously, I had to be flawless too. But life has a funny way of teaching you the truth.   The Pressure to Be “Perfect”       It starts small ,the comments from aunties, the silent judgments from people online, or the subtle comparisons that come with being a woman in Nigeria. Someone always has an opinion about what you wear, how you talk, what you post, or how you live your life. If yo...

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